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Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual Gift

Here's the "cycle"... a man watches porn... often in violation of his very own conscience... and then masturbates... and then feels guilty... and then tries to NOT watch porn... and then starts the cycle over by watching porn again. The Power of Purity is for men who are interested in discovering how to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. The Power of Purity is a 100% safe and confidential resource that will help men... FINALLY... experience their sexual gift in a healthier way. Purity IS possible with The Power of Purity! A NEW EPISODE PUBLISHES EVERY TUESDAY
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Purity is possible... with The Power of Purity!

Jan 12, 2021

Tony and his wife were both recently diagnosed Covid POSITIVE.  Sheri did pretty well.  She was sick for a week... but never even had a fever.  Tony on the other hand got really sick... and if you'd like to hear about Tony's Covid Adventure... you're welcome to listen to episode 255 from last week.

After having Covid... and after being very sick... it got Tony to thinking... how being infected with the Covid 19 virus can be compared to a man being infected with the virus of sexual sin.  How are the two similar?  When a man's life is infected with sexual sin... how is it similar to a man's life being infected with Covid 19?

Tony has been infected with both of these viruses in his life.

When Tony had Covid 19... it made him physically sicker than he's ever been in his life.

When Tony has the virus of sexual sin... and sexual addiction... it almost totally destroyed his marriage... his family... and his life.

In this series of episodes... Covid 19 vs Sexual Sin... Tony shares 7 principles that compare Covid 19 to Sexual Sin... and how men can be healed from the "virus" that's trying to kill them! 

In this episode Tony shares episodes 4 & 5!

Jan 5, 2021

Tony and his wife were both recently diagnosed Covid POSITIVE.  Sheri did pretty well.  She was sick for a week... but never even had a fever.  Tony on the other hand got really sick... and if you'd like to hear about Tony's Covid Adventure... you're welcome to listen to episode 255 from last week.

After having Covid... and after being very sick... it got Tony to thinking... how being infected with the Covid 19 virus can be compared to a man being infected with the virus of sexual sin.  How are the two similar?  When a man's life is infected with sexual sin... how is it similar to a man's life being infected with Covid 19?

Tony has been infected with both of these viruses in his life.

When Tony had Covid 19... it made him physically sicker than he's ever been in his life.

When Tony has the virus of sexual sin... and sexual addiction... it almost totally destroyed his marriage... his family... and his life.

In this series of episodes... Covid 19 vs Sexual Sin... Tony shares 7 principles that compare Covid 19 to Sexual Sin... and how men can be healed from the "virus" that's trying to kill them! 

In this episode Tony shares episodes 4 & 5!

Dec 29, 2020

Tony and his wife were both recently diagnosed Covid POSITIVE.  Sheri did pretty well.  She was sick for a week... but never even had a fever.  Tony on the other hand got really sick... and if you'd like to hear about Tony's Covid Adventure... you're welcome to listen to episode 255 from last week.

After having Covid... and after being very sick... it got Tony to thinking... how being infected with the Covid 19 virus can be compared to a man being infected with the virus of sexual sin.  How are the two similar?  When a man's life is infected with sexual sin... how is it similar to a man's life being infected with Covid 19?

Tony has been infected with both of these viruses in his life.

When Tony had Covid 19... it made him physically sicker than he's ever been in his life.

When Tony has the virus of sexual sin... and sexual addiction... it almost totally destroyed his marriage... his family... and his life.

In this series of episodes... Covid 19 vs Sexual Sin... Tony shares 7 principles that compare Covid 19 to Sexual Sin... and how men can be healed from the "virus" that's trying to kill them! 

Dec 22, 2020

Tony and his wife were both recently diagnosed Covid POSITIVE.  Sheri did pretty well.  She was sick for a week... but never even had a fever.  Tony on the other hand got really sick... and if you'd like to hear about Tony's Covid Adventure... you're welcome to listen to episode 255 from last week.

After having Covid... and after being very sick... it got Tony to thinking... how being infected with the Covid 19 virus can be compared to a man being infected with the virus of sexual sin.  How are the two similar?  When a man's life is infected with sexual sin... how is it similar to a man's life being infected with Covid 19?

Tony has been infected with both of these viruses in his life.

When Tony had Covid 19... it made him physically sicker than he's ever been in his life.

When Tony has the virus of sexual sin... and sexual addiction... it almost totally destroyed his marriage... his family... and his life.

In this series of episodes... Covid 19 vs Sexual Sin... Tony shares 7 principles that compare Covid 19 to Sexual Sin... and how men can be healed from the "virus" that's trying to kill them! 

Dec 15, 2020

Hey Guys!

On Thanksgiving Day I started getting sick.

The next day my wife and I both tested POSITIVE with COVID.

I got really sick.

I had a fever for 14 days straight.

Now I'm having issues with shortness of breath... so I'm going to the hospital to get checked out.

I'm not sure what's going to happen... but I'm trusting God and I have total peace!

I've never missed an episode since the podcast began... and I didn't want to miss this week.

So I recorded this episode before I left for the hospital.

Listen to this episode and hear about...

Tony's COVID Adventure!

I love you guys!

 

Dec 8, 2020

We live in a very highly sexualized culture... and we are surrounded by constant and never-ending temptation.

  • Women jogging next to the road.
  • Pictures in magazines.
  • Scenes in movies.
  • Pop ups on our devices.
  • The perpetual presence of Internet pornography.
  • Billboards next to the highway.
  • A flirtatious woman at the office.
  • The strip club less than 30 minutes from your house.

On and on the temptations go!

What this means is that every man will inevitably be "triggered" over and over again... and therefore tempted to act out sexually in ways that are inconsistent with God's will... plan... and design for human sexuality.

In view of these realities... it's incredibly important that every man know in advance that he will be "triggered" over and over again... and to have an action plan prepared in advance that will enable him to manage the situation in a godly way when he is "triggered" to act out.

In this series of episodes (252-254) Tony shares 7 principles that will help men to manage their "triggers" in a healthy and godly way.

You WILL be "triggered".

Are you ready?

Dec 1, 2020

We live in a very highly sexualized culture... and we are surrounded by constant and never-ending temptation.

  • Women jogging next to the road.
  • Pictures in magazines.
  • Scenes in movies.
  • Pop ups on our devices.
  • The perpetual presence of Internet pornography.
  • Billboards next to the highway.
  • A flirtatious woman at the office.
  • The strip club less than 30 minutes from your house.

On and on the temptations go!

What this means is that every man will inevitably be "triggered" over and over again... and therefore tempted to act out sexually in ways that are inconsistent with God's will... plan... and design for human sexuality.

In view of these realities... it's incredibly important that every man know in advance that he will be "triggered" over and over again... and to have an action plan prepared in advance that will enable him to manage the situation in a godly way when he is "triggered" to act out.

In this series of episodes (252-254) Tony shares 7 principles that will help men to manage their "triggers" in a healthy and godly way.

You WILL be "triggered".

Are you ready?

Nov 24, 2020

We live in a very highly sexualized culture... and we are surrounded by constant and never-ending temptation.

  • Women jogging next to the road.
  • Pictures in magazines.
  • Scenes in movies.
  • Pop ups on our devices.
  • The perpetual presence of Internet pornography.
  • Billboards next to the highway.
  • A flirtatious woman at the office.
  • The strip club less than 30 minutes from your house.

On and on the temptations go!

What this means is that every man will inevitably be "triggered" over and over again... and therefore tempted to act out sexually in ways that are inconsistent with God's will... plan... and design for human sexuality.

In view of these realities... it's incredibly important that every man know in advance that he will be "triggered" over and over again... and to have an action plan prepared in advance that will enable him to manage the situation in a godly way when he is "triggered" to act out.

In this series of episodes (252-254) Tony shares 7 principles that will help men to manage their "triggers" in a healthy and godly way.

You WILL be "triggered".

Are you ready?

Nov 17, 2020

Derek is 25 years old.

Derek is a Christian.

Derek is a single man.

Derek has struggled deeply with watching porn.

Derek has been conflicted in his conscience many times after watching porn.

Derek has struggled to reconcile his sexuality with his spirituality.

Is it possible for a 25 year old single Christian man to stop watching porn?

Is it possible for a single man to control sex instead of being controlled by sex?

Is it possible for a single man to honor God with the expression of his sexual gift?

Derek's story is amazing.

Derek is living proof that God can help a single Christian man break his addiction to pornography.

Listen to Derek's story... and be blessed!

If Derek can do it... then you can do it too!

Nov 10, 2020

Derek is 25 years old.

Derek is a Christian.

Derek is a single man.

Derek has struggled deeply with watching porn.

Derek has been conflicted in his conscience many times after watching porn.

Derek has struggled to reconcile his sexuality with his spirituality.

Is it possible for a 25 year old single Christian man to stop watching porn?

Is it possible for a single man to control sex instead of being controlled by sex?

Is it possible for a single man to honor God with the expression of his sexual gift?

Derek's story is amazing.

Derek is living proof that God can help a single Christian man break his addiction to pornography.

Listen to Derek's story... and be blessed!

If Derek can do it... then you can do it too!

Nov 3, 2020

Les is a Christian man.

Les loves God.

Les went to bible college.

Les wants his life to count for the Kingdom of God.

Les got married... and wanted to honor his wife with the expression of his sexual gift.

Yet... in spite of all these realities... Les struggled deeply with an addiction to internet pornography... and eventually felt complete hopelessness.

Then a friend told Les about The Power of Purity Podcast.

Les began to listen to the podcast... and after listening for a while... he wrote the following note to Tony:

Hello Tony,

First of all I have to say this ministry has impacted me greatly. I have felt hopeless as a newly married man who struggles with pornography. My friend shared with me your podcast and I cant stop listening to i.  I have been so encouraged and convicted through it that I have made some big steps to sexual healing and becoming the man God wants me to be. I feel that God has brought you and this ministry into my life at the right time because I had no idea how big of a deal this can become. I thought that no one would know about pornography but I am seeing the progressiveness of this sin and the impact it has had on my wife as well. Praise be to God that it is not too late and that I find myself having hope about this issue for the first time and progress being made. I decided I want to share this with as many men as I can and am going to start a small group where we watch your conference and use the workbook. 
 
Listen to this story and you'll see that God can break sexual addiction from a man's heart and life... and that a Christian man can truly learn to honor God... and honor his wife... with the expression of his sexual gift!
Oct 27, 2020

Les is a Christian man.

Les loves God.

Les went to bible college.

Les wants his life to count for the Kingdom of God.

Les got married... and wanted to honor his wife with the expression of his sexual gift.

Yet... in spite of all these realities... Les struggled deeply with an addiction to internet pornography... and eventually felt complete hopelessness.

Then a friend told Les about The Power of Purity Podcast.

Les began to listen to the podcast... and after listening for a while... he wrote the following note to Tony:

Hello Tony,

First of all I have to say this ministry has impacted me greatly. I have felt hopeless as a newly married man who struggles with pornography. My friend shared with me your podcast and I cant stop listening to i.  I have been so encouraged and convicted through it that I have made some big steps to sexual healing and becoming the man God wants me to be. I feel that God has brought you and this ministry into my life at the right time because I had no idea how big of a deal this can become. I thought that no one would know about pornography but I am seeing the progressiveness of this sin and the impact it has had on my wife as well. Praise be to God that it is not too late and that I find myself having hope about this issue for the first time and progress being made. I decided I want to share this with as many men as I can and am going to start a small group where we watch your conference and use the workbook. 
 
Listen to this story and you'll see that God can break sexual addiction from a man's heart and life... and that a Christian man can truly learn to honor God... and honor his wife... with the expression of his sexual gift!
Oct 20, 2020

Les is a Christian man.

Les loves God.

Les went to bible college.

Les wants his life to count for the Kingdom of God.

Les got married... and wanted to honor his wife with the expression of his sexual gift.

Yet... in spite of all these realities... Les struggled deeply with an addiction to internet pornography... and eventually felt complete hopelessness.

Then a friend told Les about The Power of Purity Podcast.

Les began to listen to the podcast... and after listening for a while... he wrote the following note to Tony:

Hello Tony,

First of all I have to say this ministry has impacted me greatly. I have felt hopeless as a newly married man who struggles with pornography. My friend shared with me your podcast and I cant stop listening to i.  I have been so encouraged and convicted through it that I have made some big steps to sexual healing and becoming the man God wants me to be. I feel that God has brought you and this ministry into my life at the right time because I had no idea how big of a deal this can become. I thought that no one would know about pornography but I am seeing the progressiveness of this sin and the impact it has had on my wife as well. Praise be to God that it is not too late and that I find myself having hope about this issue for the first time and progress being made. I decided I want to share this with as many men as I can and am going to start a small group where we watch your conference and use the workbook. 
 
Listen to this story and you'll see that God can break sexual addiction from a man's heart and life... and that a Christian man can truly learn to honor God... and honor his wife... with the expression of his sexual gift!
Oct 13, 2020

Les is a Christian man.

Les loves God.

Les went to bible college.

Les wants his life to count for the Kingdom of God.

Les got married... and wanted to honor his wife with the expression of his sexual gift.

Yet... in spite of all these realities... Les struggled deeply with an addiction to internet pornography... and eventually felt complete hopelessness.

Then a friend told Les about The Power of Purity Podcast.

Les began to listen to the podcast... and after listening for a while... he wrote the following note to Tony:

Hello Tony,

First of all I have to say this ministry has impacted me greatly. I have felt hopeless as a newly married man who struggles with pornography. My friend shared with me your podcast and I cant stop listening to it, I have been so encouraged and convicted through it that I have made some big steps to sexual healing and becoming the man God wants me to be. I feel that God has brought you and this ministry into my life at the right time because I had no idea how big of a deal this can become. I thought that no one would know about pornography but I am seeing the progressiveness of this sin and the impact it has had on my wife as well. Praise be to God that it is not too late and that I find myself having hope about this issue for the first time and progress being made. I decided I want to share this with as many men as I can and am going to start a small group where we watch your conference and use the workbook. 
 
Listen to this story and you'll see that God can break sexual addiction from a man's heart and life... and that a Christian man can truly learn to honor God... and honor his wife... with the expression of his sexual gift!
Oct 6, 2020

Nothing destroys trust like sexual betrayal.  Beyond broken vows, a woman who discovers that the man she loves has been viewing pornography or having an affair must deal with devastating blows to her self-image and self-worth.  She must grapple with the fact that the man she thought she knew has lied and deceived her.  She may even bear the brunt of shame and judgment when the people around her find out.

Drawing from her experience both as a marriage and family therapist and a woman who personally experienced the devastation of sexual betrayal, Dr. Sheri Keffer walks women impacted by betrayal through the pain and toward recovery.  She explains how the trauma of betrayal affects our minds, bodies, spirits, and sexuality.  She offers practical tools for dealing with emotional triggers and helps women understand the realities of sexual addiction.  And she shows women how to practice self-care, develop healthy boundaries, protect themselves from abuse or manipulation, and find freedom from the burden of shame and guilt.

Dr. Sheri Keffer received both her PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy and her Master of Arts in Theology… from Fuller Theological Seminary.

She currently specializes in individual, couples and family therapy at her private practice in Newport Beach, CA.

Sheri is a regular co-host of the nationally-syndicated talk show New Life Live with Stephen Arteburn… which is heard in 150 markets with 2 million listeners.

Sheri is the author of the book Intimate Deception… which is intended to help women heal from the trauma of sexual betrayal.

Sheri enjoys the beach, reading, mountain biking, hiking, camping, and big game fishing evidenced by a 150-pound marlin that proudly hangs on her wall.

drsherikeffer.com

braveone.com

Sep 29, 2020

Nothing destroys trust like sexual betrayal.  Beyond broken vows, a woman who discovers that the man she loves has been viewing pornography or having an affair must deal with devastating blows to her self-image and self-worth.  She must grapple with the fact that the man she thought she knew has lied and deceived her.  She may even bear the brunt of shame and judgment when the people around her find out.

Drawing from her experience both as a marriage and family therapist and a woman who personally experienced the devastation of sexual betrayal, Dr. Sheri Keffer walks women impacted by betrayal through the pain and toward recovery.  She explains how the trauma of betrayal affects our minds, bodies, spirits, and sexuality.  She offers practical tools for dealing with emotional triggers and helps women understand the realities of sexual addiction.  And she shows women how to practice self-care, develop healthy boundaries, protect themselves from abuse or manipulation, and find freedom from the burden of shame and guilt.

Dr. Sheri Keffer received both her PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy and her Master of Arts in Theology… from Fuller Theological Seminary.

She currently specializes in individual, couples and family therapy at her private practice in Newport Beach, CA.

Sheri is a regular co-host of the nationally-syndicated talk show New Life Live with Stephen Arteburn… which is heard in 150 markets with 2 million listeners.

Sheri is the author of the book Intimate Deception… which is intended to help women heal from the trauma of sexual betrayal.

Sheri enjoys the beach, reading, mountain biking, hiking, camping, and big game fishing evidenced by a 150-pound marlin that proudly hangs on her wall.

drsherikeffer.com

brave one.com

Sep 22, 2020

In a very real way... in several different ways... your physical body is about the business of betraying you.

Your physical body is trying to sabotage and betray the possibility of you being a man of God... and a man of sexual purity.

The reason for this is because your physical body has a very powerful sex drive.  Your body has an opinion about sex.  Your body knows what it wants and what it needs when it comes to sex... and your body will tell you when it wants what it wants.  Or maybe better said... your body will scream at you... and essentially place a kind of demand upon you...

GIVE ME SEX NOW!

GIVE ME MY ORGASM NOW!

GIVE ME A RELEASE NOW!

And what this means... is that if you're going to be a man of sexual purity... you absolutely are going to have to engage a very real battle with your own physical body.

You're going to have to tame your body.

You're going to have to break your body.

You're going to have to retrain your body.

You're going to have to teach your body that it does not control you... and that you control it.

You're going to have to teach your body that it does not tell you when it gets an orgasm... and that you tell it when it gets an orgasm.

In this series Tony will help you to see your battle with your body in a new and different way... and offer some very practical strategies for you to tame your body as you fight to bring your body... and your sexual gift... into submission to Christ!

Sep 15, 2020

In a very real way... in several different ways... your physical body is about the business of betraying you.

Your physical body is trying to sabotage and betray the possibility of you being a man of God... and a man of sexual purity.

The reason for this is because your physical body has a very powerful sex drive.  Your body has an opinion about sex.  Your body knows what it wants and what it needs when it comes to sex... and your body will tell you when it wants what it wants.  Or maybe better said... your body will scream at you... and essentially place a kind of demand upon you...

GIVE ME SEX NOW!

GIVE ME MY ORGASM NOW!

GIVE ME A RELEASE NOW!

And what this means... is that if you're going to be a man of sexual purity... you absolutely are going to have to engage a very real battle with your own physical body.

You're going to have to tame your body.

You're going to have to break your body.

You're going to have to retrain your body.

You're going to have to teach your body that it does not control you... and that you control it.

You're going to have to teach your body that it does not tell you when it gets an orgasm... and that you tell it when it gets an orgasm.

In this series Tony will help you to see your battle with your body in a new and different way... and offer some very practical strategies for you to tame your body as you fight to bring your body... and your sexual gift... into submission to Christ!

Sep 8, 2020

The last 2 episodes of the podcast (238 & 239) were entitled... With Or Without Your Wife.

In these 2 episodes Tony discussed the importance of a Christian man being committed to sexual purity... regardless of what's going on sexually in the context of his marriage.

Unfortunately... sometimes a married couple can be in the place where sexual intimacy never happens... or happens very infrequently.  In such cases many men resort to acting out in secrecy as they take matters into their own hands (no pun intended)... and meet their own sexual needs in their own way... apart from their wife.

While it's true that we are called to be men of purity... With Or Without Our Wife... it's also true that it can be profoundly difficult for men to maintain their purity in the context of a sexless marriage... or a very difficult marriage.

In this episode... and the next... Tony offers advice and guidance concerning what it might look like for a man to live with "sexual honesty" before his wife... even if they are struggling with sex in the marriage.

Sep 1, 2020

The last 2 episodes of the podcast (238 & 239) were entitled... With Or Without Your Wife.

In these 2 episodes Tony discussed the importance of a Christian man being committed to sexual purity... regardless of what's going on sexually in the context of his marriage.

Unfortunately... sometimes a married couple can be in the place where sexual intimacy never happens... or happens very infrequently.  In such cases many men resort to acting out in secrecy as they take matters into their own hands (no pun intended)... and meet their own sexual needs in their own way... apart from their wife.

While it's true that we are called to be men of purity... With Or Without Our Wife... it's also true that it can be profoundly difficult for men to maintain their purity in the context of a sexless marriage... or a very difficult marriage.

In this episode... and the next... Tony offers advice and guidance concerning what it might look like for a man to live with "sexual honesty" before his wife... even if they are struggling with sex in the marriage.

Aug 25, 2020

Sometimes it feels like God is really unfair!

God tells us... as Christian men... that he expects us to only express our sexual gift with our wife... within the context of our marriage.

But then... in many situations... a man's wife simply isn't as interested in sex as her husband is.

So as a result... this Christian man is basically stuck in the middle... being pressed from both sides!

On one side... God is telling him he can only have sex with his wife.

On the other side... the man has a wife who isn't interested in sex.

Is God crazy?

Is God unfair?

Does God really expect us to be men of sexual integrity... and sexual faithfulness... if our wife isn't as interested in sex as we are?

In this episode Tony explores the idea that we are called... as Christian men... and as men of God... to be men of sexual purity and sexual integrity... WITH OR WITHOUT the sexual accessibility to our wife that we might prefer.

Aug 18, 2020

Sometimes it feels like God is really unfair!

God tells us... as Christian men... that he expects us to only express our sexual gift with our wife... within the context of our marriage.

But then... in many situations... a man's wife simply isn't as interested in sex as her husband is.

So as a result... this Christian man is basically stuck in the middle... being pressed from both sides!

On one side... God is telling him he can only have sex with his wife.

On the other side... the man has a wife who isn't interested in sex.

Is God crazy?

Is God unfair?

Does God really expect us to be men of sexual integrity... and sexual faithfulness... if our wife isn't as interested in sex as we are?

In this episode Tony explores the idea that we are called... as Christian men... and as men of God... to be men of sexual purity and sexual integrity... WITH OR WITHOUT the sexual accessibility to our wife that we might prefer.

Aug 11, 2020

Rob Kowalski is the Founder and CEO of CityFam... which is a Baltimore based no-profit organization that advocates for the power of community to transform an individual, a city, and even the whole world!

Rob has an amazing story of sexual redemption in his life... and Tony recently interviewed Rob as a guest on The Power of Purity Podcast... Episodes 230 & 231.

In addition... Rob hosts his own podcast called... The Kowalski Analysis.

After Rob was a guest on The Power of Purity Podcast... he then asked Tony to be a guest on The Kowalski Analysis.  As a result... todays episode... and next weeks episode... are actually Tony being interviews by Rob on The Kowalski Analysis.

Listen in to hear some variations of Tony's story that you may have never heard before!

Aug 4, 2020

Rob is the Founder and CEO of CityFam... which is a Baltimore based no-profit organization that advocates for the power of community to transform an individual, a city, and even the whole world!

Rob has an amazing story of sexual redemption in his life... and Tony recently interviewed Rob as a guest on The Power of Purity Podcast... Episodes 230 & 231.

In addition... Rob hosts his own podcast called... The Kowalski Analysis.

After Rob was a guest on The Power of Purity Podcast... he then asked Tony to be a guest on The Kowalski Analysis.  As a result... todays episode... and next weeks episode... are actually Tony being interviews by Rob on The Kowalski Analysis.

Listen in to hear some variations of Tony's story that you may have never heard before!

Jul 28, 2020

Greg & Stacey Oliver are keenly aware of the devastation caused by pornography & sexual addiction. For years, during his time as a worship & music pastor, Greg secretly struggled with an addiction to porn and sex. This secret struggle – which was intensified by the fear of what would happen if ever exposed – led to years of attempting to stop, control, or at least manage the behavior; as well as countless prayers for God to “take it away.” Not understanding the many factors that drive addiction, Greg thought that if he could just find the right formula, he would be able to make better choices and no one would have to know. After years of failure, he felt completely isolated from everyone in his life, including God. 

While unaware of Greg’s issues, Stacey had her own struggles with insecurity and unhealthy relationship expectations. She experienced a type of idolatry within her marriage, placing hope and confidence in Greg instead of in God. She also looked to other people to give her worth, trying to be the perfect “ministry wife” and never saying no to anyone. She believed that enough “being and doing,” made her OK.

That all fell apart in early 2009, when God exposed Greg’s years-long enslavement to sexual addiction. Greg lost his job, Stacey was devastated by betrayal, and they both found themselves in a place of emptiness, completely unable to predict what would happen next. 

Finally, with none of the old crutches or idols to hold on to, they began to walk a journey of recovery, guided by faithful friends and qualified therapists. It was on this journey that both Greg & Stacey rediscovered God for who He really is. Where they had seen Him as distant, angry, or always requiring more effort, they now began to see Him as the loving, gracious Father found in Scripture.

Through the process of recovery, Greg & Stacey discovered how much unhealthy beliefs and behaviors had taken control of their lives, influencing how they viewed themselves, other people, and even God. Through their journey they have seen God change them, heal them, and use them in other peoples’ lives who struggle with the same issues. Greg & Stacey feel passionately that God has brought them through their experience so that He can use them to help others find the same freedom, grace and abundant life.

https://awakenrecovery.com

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