Is Scheduling Sex a Good Idea?
In this episode series Tony shares 10 reasons that "scheduling" sex might be worth considering. The fact of the matter is that for most people... when something is a priority to them... they go above and beyond the call of duty to not just wait to see if that thing happens... and instead they make sure that the thing happens... because it is a priority to them. We live in a crazy busy... "helter skelter" world... and there are often so many things that we "have" to do... that the things that we "want" to do... and "need" to do... often get overshadowed and pushed to the side.
Many people have the romantic and idealistic notion that sexual intimacy should always be spontaneous... like what happens in romance novels. But in reality... if couples wait for sex to always happen spontaneously... they might end up waiting way more than they expected... and sexual intimacy between them might happen way less than they would prefer.
In view of this... Tony shares 10 reasons that scheduling sex can often work to the advantage for married couples. After all... people schedule all kinds of other things that are important to them... like going to church... or taking the kids to practice... or grocery shopping... so why not keep sexual intimacy the priority that it should always be by also making sure that it happens on a frequent and regular basis by scheduling the event on your weekly calendar?
Tony asks that before you render a judgment too quickly against this idea... will you at least listen to these episodes as objectively as you possibly can?
You might just be surprised... because a "schedule" might just help you and your spouse to experience more sexual intimacy than you've been having in a long time!
Welcome to... Is Scheduling Sex A Good Idea?
Is Scheduling Sex a Good Idea?
In this episode series Tony shares 10 reasons that "scheduling" sex might be worth considering. The fact of the matter is that for most people... when something is a priority to them... they go above and beyond the call of duty to not just wait to see if that thing happens... and instead they make sure that the thing happens... because it is a priority to them. We live in a crazy busy... "helter skelter" world... and there are often so many things that we "have" to do... that the things that we "want" to do... and "need" to do... often get overshadowed and pushed to the side.
Many people have the romantic and idealistic notion that sexual intimacy should always be spontaneous... like what happens in romance novels. But in reality... if couples wait for sex to always happen spontaneously... they might end up waiting way more than they expected... and sexual intimacy between them might happen way less than they would prefer.
In view of this... Tony shares 10 reasons that scheduling sex can often work to the advantage for married couples. After all... people schedule all kinds of other things that are important to them... like going to church... or taking the kids to practice... or grocery shopping... so why not keep sexual intimacy the priority that it should always be by also making sure that it happens on a frequent and regular basis by scheduling the event on your weekly calendar?
Tony asks that before you render a judgment too quickly against this idea... will you at least listen to these episodes as objectively as you possibly can?
You might just be surprised... because a "schedule" might just help you and your spouse to experience more sexual intimacy than you've been having in a long time!
Welcome to... Is Scheduling Sex A Good Idea?
Is Scheduling Sex a Good Idea?
In this episode series Tony shares 10 reasons that "scheduling" sex might be worth considering. The fact of the matter is that for most people... when something is a priority to them... they go above and beyond the call of duty to not just wait to see if that thing happens... and instead they make sure that the thing happens... because it is a priority to them. We live in a crazy busy... "helter skelter" world... and there are often so many things that we "have" to do... that the things that we "want" to do... and "need" to do... often get overshadowed and pushed to the side.
Many people have the romantic and idealistic notion that sexual intimacy should always be spontaneous... like what happens in romance novels. But in reality... if couples wait for sex to always happen spontaneously... they might end up waiting way more than they expected... and sexual intimacy between them might happen way less than they would prefer.
In view of this... Tony shares 10 reasons that scheduling sex can often work to the advantage for married couples. After all... people schedule all kinds of other things that are important to them... like going to church... or taking the kids to practice... or grocery shopping... so why not keep sexual intimacy the priority that it should always be by also making sure that it happens on a frequent and regular basis by scheduling the event on your weekly calendar?
Tony asks that before you render a judgment too quickly against this idea... will you at least listen to these episodes as objectively as you possibly can?
You might just be surprised... because a "schedule" might just help you and your spouse to experience more sexual intimacy than you've been having in a long time!
Welcome to... Is Scheduling Sex A Good Idea?
DID YOU KNOW THAT AN ESTIMATED 50% OF PASTORS VIEW INTERNET PORNOGRAPHY ON A REGULAR BASIS?
Vern Tompke has been a pastor for 29 years... and throughout his ministry he has struggled with using pornography. During this time Vern realized just how hard it is for a pastor to find help with this struggle.
* Who can a pastor turn to for help?
* Who can a pastor be honest with?
* Who can a pastor trust?
* What if people find out about his struggle?
* Will he be fired from his job?
* How will be continue to provide for his family if he looses his job?
These are no doubt questions that Vern struggled with.
Although Vern led a weekly men's recovery group around this issue for 15 years... he didn't begin to walk in true freedom until 3 years ago.
What helped Vern "turn the corner" was getting mentored by another godly man... investing time and finances in his own therapeutic process... and listening on a regular basis to great podcasts... including The Power of Purity Podcast.
Recently Vern started his own podcast... Pastors On Porn... which is intended to be a safe place for struggling pastors to find anonymous help for their struggle.
In this episode Tony does something very different... because Tony is normally the INTERVIEWER... but on this episode Tony is actually the INTERVIEWEE.
Vern actually hosted Tony as a guest on the Pastors On Porn Podcast... and it's that episode that's being presented today on the Power of Purity Podcast.
https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pastors-on-porn/id1435403633