Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity.
Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love.
In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis.
Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse.
As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest.
What if one person in the marriage in interested in sex... and the other person is not?
What if one person in the marriage wants and needs sex more than the other person?
In this very important series of 5 episodes (43-47), Tony exposes 4 common reasons that contribute to low sexual desire, and then shares 9 principles that will help and encourage those who are interested in increasing their level of sexual interest and desire... so they can become sexually present in their marriage in a healthier way.
In this episode Tony shares the 4th reason people often struggle with diminished sexual desire, and the first 2 principles of what to do about it!
In this episode Tony interrupts our current Podcast series - When Your Or Your Spouse Doesn't Like Sex - to present a special Christmas episode on the topic of the Incarnation.
The Incarnation is not just a 2,000 year old historical event that we remember during the holiday season - far removed from the reality of our present day lives - but is in fact the very basis of the possibility that we can experience sexual healing and wholeness in our lives today.
Would you like to experience healing in the sexual area of your life?
Would you like to be a healthier person when it comes to sex?
Would you like to control sex instead of being controlled by sex?
Would you like to break the power that pornography has been holding in your life?
This episode will help you understand what the Incarnation is - and how the Incarnation provides the power and the possibility that all these things can come true for you! Or said another way...
It's because of the Incarnation that you can experience sexual healing in your life!
It's because of the Incarnation that you can become healthier in the sexual area of your life!
It's because of the Incarnation that you can learn to control sex instead of being controlled by sex!
It's because of the Incarnation that the power of pornography can be broken from you life!
The truth of this episode isn't just for Christmas - it's for every day of the year!
So listen to this episode - and celebrate the Incarnation and the true meaning of Christmas - no matter what day of the year you're listening!
Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity.
Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love.
In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis.
Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse.
As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest.
What if one person in the marriage in interested in sex... and the other person is not?
What if one person in the marriage wants and needs sex more than the other person?
In this very important series of 5 episodes (43-47), Tony exposes 4 common reasons that contribute to low sexual desire, and then shares 9 principles that will help and encourage those who are interested in increasing their level of sexual interest and desire... so they can become sexually present in their marriage in a healthier way.
In this episode Tony shares the first 3 reasons people often struggle with diminished sexual desire.
Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity.
Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love.
In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis.
Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse.
As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest.
What if one person in the marriage is interested in sex... and the other person is not?
What if one person in the marriage wants and needs sex more than the other person?
In this very important series of 5 episodes (43-47), Tony exposes 4 common reasons that contribute to low sexual desire, and then shares 9 principles that will help and encourage those who are interested in increasing their level of sexual interest and desire... so they can become sexually present in their marriage in a healthier way.
In this episode Tony shares the INTRODUCTION to this important series...
When You Or Your Spouse Doesn't Like Sex.
Tony's guest on this episode is Keelie Reason... who is known as "The Sex Talk Lady"... and authors the website lovehopeadventure.com
Keelie noticed that so many women around her were struggling with sex within the context of their marriages, and were often reduced to "duty sex" as a kind of responsibility to their husbands.
Keelie's passion is to encourage women to enjoy sex with their husbands instead of just enduring sex, and through her ministry she provides the practical information, resources, and tools that equip women for the journey toward greater sexual wholeness and health.
In these episodes (41 & 42) Tony and Keelie discuss important topics such as...
* What to do about the challenge when one spouse is low desire and one spouse is high desire
* How to "get in the mood" when you're not in the mood
* Dealing with the sexual baggage of your past
* How to initiate sex with your spouse
* The importance of communicating about sex
* Becoming adventurous in the bedroom
* Keeping sex from becoming routine
* Using sex games in the bedroom
* And Much Much More...
Join Tony and Keelie as they discuss tips, strategies, ideas, and suggestions that will help you be healthier sexually in the context of your marriage!
Visit lovehopeadventure.com for more resources and information.
Tony's guest on this episode is Keelie Reason... who is known as "The Sex Talk Lady"... and authors the website lovehopeadventure.com
Keelie noticed that so many women around her were struggling with sex within the context of their marriages, and were often reduced to "duty sex" as a kind of responsibility to their husbands.
Keelie's passion is to encourage women to enjoy sex with their husbands instead of just enduring sex, and through her ministry she provides the practical information, resources, and tools that equip women for the journey toward greater sexual wholeness and health.
In these episodes (41 & 42) Tony and Keelie discuss important topics such as...
* What to do about the challenge when one spouse is low desire and one spouse is high desire
* How to "get in the mood" when you're not in the mood
* Dealing with the sexual baggage of your past
* How to initiate sex with your spouse
* The importance of communicating about sex
* Becoming adventurous in the bedroom
* Keeping sex from becoming routine
* Using sex games in the bedroom
* And Much Much More...
Join Tony and Keelie as they discuss tips, strategies, ideas, and suggestions that will help you be healthier sexually in the context of your marriage!
Visit lovehopeadventure.com for more resources and information.
It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another.
There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE...
1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another.
2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another.
3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis.
This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!
Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE?
The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.
In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 17 - 19.
Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!
It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another.
There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE...
1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another.
2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another.
3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis.
This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!
Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE?
The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.
In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 15 and 16.
Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!
It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another.
There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE...
1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another.
2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another.
3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis.
This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!
Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE?
The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.
In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 13 and 14.
Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!
It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another.
This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!
Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE?
The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.
In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 10 through 12.
Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!
It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another.
This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!
Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE?
The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.
In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 6 through 9.
Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!
It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another.
This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple!
Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE?
The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person.
In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 1 through 5.
Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!
There’s at least 3 very sobering realities about pornography that you should be aware of…
- You know how much you’ve struggled with pornography in your own heart and life.
- You know how the sexualized culture in which you live presents a never-ending parade of sexual temptation that will always be just 1 or 2 clicks away on your devices.
- You know that your kids are growing up in the same sexualized culture, and they will also face the same challenges and struggles with sex that you yourself are facing.
It’s a pretty scary thought to realize that your kids are probably going to have the same struggles and issues with sex as we have struggled with so deeply.
Did you know it’s inevitable that your kids will see porn… it’s only a matter of time?
Did you know that the same porn that’s a never-ending temptation to you will also be a never-ending temptation to your kids?
Did you ever wonder what you can do to prepare your kids for the inevitable reality of the porn saturated culture in which they live?
In this episode Tony interviews Dina Alexander… the founder and president of Educate and Empower Kids… an organization dedicated to equipping parents with the practical tools and resources that will…
- empower them to talk with their kids in healthy and appropriate ways about pornography, intimacy, and sexuality…
- enable them to prepare their kids for the inevitable pornography onslaught they will be confronted with in this day and age.
If you have kids… and you’re interested in protecting, preparing, and equipping your kids for the coming battles they will face… these episodes are for you!
For more information visit – educateempowerkids.org
There’s at least 3 very sobering realities about pornography that you should be aware of…
- You know how much you’ve struggled with pornography in your own heart and life.
- You know how the sexualized culture in which you live presents a never-ending parade of sexual temptation that will always be just 1 or 2 clicks away on your devices.
- You know that your kids are growing up in the same sexualized culture, and they will also face the same challenges and struggles with sex that you yourself are facing.
It’s a pretty scary thought to realize that your kids are probably going to have the same struggles and issues with sex as we have struggled with so deeply.
Did you know it’s inevitable that your kids will see porn… it’s only a matter of time?
Did you know that the same porn that’s a never-ending temptation to you will also be a never-ending temptation to your kids?
Did you ever wonder what you can do to prepare your kids for the inevitable reality of the porn saturated culture in which they live?
In this episode Tony interviews Dina Alexander… the founder and president of Educate and Empower Kids… an organization dedicated to equipping parents with the practical tools and resources that will…
- empower them to talk with their kids in healthy and appropriate ways about pornography, intimacy, and sexuality…
- enable them to prepare their kids for the inevitable pornography onslaught they will be confronted with in this day and age.
If you have kids… and you’re interested in protecting, preparing, and equipping your kids for the coming battles they will face… these episodes are for you!
For more information visit – educateempowerkids.org
Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?
In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?
In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you...
* to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way.
* to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex.
* to honor God with you sexual gift.
What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift.
If you're sincerely interested in being a healthier man when it comes to sex... these episodes are critically important to your journey.
In this final episode of this series - Change My Heart Oh God - Tony covers principles 9 & 10!
Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?
In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?
In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you...
* to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way.
* to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex.
* to honor God with you sexual gift.
What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift.
If you're sincerely interested in being a healthier man when it comes to sex... these episodes are critically important to your journey.
In this episode you'll discover "the currencies of the kingdom"!
Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?
In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?
In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you...
* to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way.
* to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex.
* to honor God with you sexual gift.
What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift.
If you're sincerely interested in being a healthier man when it comes to sex... these episodes are critically important to your journey.
Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?
In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?
In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you...
* to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way.
* to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex.
* to honor God with you sexual gift.
What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift.
If you're sincerely interested in being a healthier man when it comes to sex... these episodes are critically important to your journey.
Did you ever wonder why sex holds so much power in your life, and why you're still struggling to manage your sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God?
In the same way a see-saw hinges and shifts from side to side on a fulcrum point... what if there was a "fulcrum issue" that would allow you to shift your life and sexual gift from the side of bondage, sin, and failure to the other side of freedom, righteousness, and success?
In this series of episodes (28-32) Tony shares what that "fulcrum issue" is... along with 8 corresponding principles... that will empower you...
* to experience your sexual gift in a healthier way.
* to begin to control sex instead of being controlled by sex.
* to honor God with you sexual gift.
What most guys typically do in their struggle with sex is attempt to use strategies and techniques that will never work to change their lives... and it's in these episodes that you'll discover the "fulcrum issue" that will truly change your life and the way you experience your sexual gift.
If you're sincerely interested in being a healthier man when it comes to sex... these episodes are critically important to your journey.
Looking at porn isn't really that big of a deal. Right? I mean... everybody does it... and if nobody knows I'm doing it, who is it really hurting?
These are the kind of thoughts many men have as the justify, rationalize, and minimize their use of porn. And that's part of the reason that so many men look at porn... because if it's not that big of a deal... and it isn't hurting anything or anybody... then what's the difference?
In this session Tony helps men understand that in reality... they're paying a much bigger price for looking at porn than they think they're paying. When you throw a rock in a pond there are consequences, because the rock makes a splash and creates ripples. In much the same way, when a man looks at porn, whether he knows it or not, there are consequences in his life, and you can no look at porn and have no consequences than you can throw a rock in a pond and not make a splash or ripples.
In this series - The High Price of Pornography - Tony shares a total of 10 "prices" men are paying when they look at porn... and in this episode (27)... he covers the 9th and 10th "prices".
Check it out!
Looking at porn isn't really that big of a deal. Right? I mean... everybody does it... and if nobody knows I'm doing it, who is it really hurting?
These are the kind of thoughts many men have as the justify, rationalize, and minimize their use of porn. And that's part of the reason that so many men look at porn... because if it's not that big of a deal... and it isn't hurting anything or anybody... then what's the difference?
In this session Tony helps men understand that in reality... they're paying a much bigger price for looking at porn than they think they're paying. When you throw a rock in a pond there are consequences, because the rock makes a splash and creates ripples. In much the same way, when a man looks at porn, whether he knows it or not, there are consequences in his life, and you can no look at porn and have no consequences than you can throw a rock in a pond and not make a splash or ripples.
In this series - The High Price of Pornography - Tony shares a total of 10 "prices" men are paying when they look at porn... and in this episode (26)... he covers the 7th and 8th "prices".
Check it out!
Looking at porn isn't really that big of a deal. Right? I mean... everybody does it... and if nobody knows I'm doing it, who is it really hurting?
These are the kind of thoughts many men have as the justify, rationalize, and minimize their use of porn. And that's part of the reason that so many men look at porn... because if it's not that big of a deal... and it isn't hurting anything or anybody... then what's the difference?
In this session Tony helps men understand that in reality... they're paying a much bigger price for looking at porn than they think they're paying. When you throw a rock in a pond there are consequences, because the rock makes a splash and creates ripples. In much the same way, when a man looks at porn, whether he knows it or not, there are consequences in his life, and you can no look at porn and have no consequences than you can throw a rock in a pond and not make a splash or ripples.
In this series - The High Price of Pornography - Tony shares a total of 10 "prices" men are paying when they look at porn... and in this episode (25)... he covers the 4th, 5th, and 6th "prices".
Check it out!
Looking at porn isn't really that big of a deal. Right? I mean... everybody does it... and if nobody knows I'm doing it, who is it really hurting?
These are the kind of thoughts many men have as the justify, rationalize, and minimize their use of porn. And that's part of the reason that so many men look at porn... because if it's not that big of a deal... and it isn't hurting anything or anybody... then what's the difference?
In this session Tony helps men understand that in reality... they're paying a much bigger price for looking at porn than they think they're paying. When you throw a rock in a pond there are consequences, because the rock makes a splash and creates ripples. In much the same way, when a man looks at porn, whether he knows it or not, there are consequences in his life, and you can no more look at porn and have no consequences than you can throw a rock in a pond and not make a splash or ripples.
In this series - The High Price of Pornography - Tony shares a total of 10 "prices" men are paying when they look at porn... and in this episode (24)... he covers the first 3 of these "prices".
Check it out!
What would sex be like if it was the most amazing, awesome, mind-blowing, incredible, mysterious, and spiritual sex of your life?
What would sex be like if it was blessed by God with everything that's good, wonderful, delightful, pleasurable, and safe... and devoid of any barrier, encumbrance, inhibition, insecurity, self-protection, or shame?
In this episode Tony helps us to imagine what sex would be like if we could experience it the way God originally designed it to be experienced... the way Adam and Eve must have experienced sex before the fall... and before sin entered the world. (i.e. Sex before fig leaves!)
When we begin to glimpse the beauty of God's design for sex... it helps us to realize that the cultures version of sex - that so many of us have experienced - is a pathetic counterfeit when compared to the God version of sex that he has intended for us.
In this episode Tony offers 5 vignettes that will invite you to imagine sex like you've never imagined sex before... or what might be called... ELECTRIC SEX!
Have you ever thought to yourself...
"Why do I have such a problem with sex? Why do I continuously do things I know I shouldn't do, and things I know God doesn't want me to do? Why can't I manage this sex thing in a healthier way?"
Episodes 18-22 will help you answer these questions, and help you understand yourself better than you ever have before.
Discover the way God intended a boy's sexuality to emerge, and why it's virtually impossible for it to happen today according to God's plan.
Discover the "ingredients" that get mixed into virtually every boy's sexuality that essentially guarantee his ongoing struggle with sexual purity.
Discover the 10 steps of sexual escalation that make it almost impossible for most men to manage their sexual gift in a way that's honoring to God and their wife.
And discover 3 stepping stones of freedom that will help you reverse the negative cycle that's existed in your life, and help you create a new cycle that puts success within your reach.
The thesis of episodes 18 - 22...
When you understand the very unhealthy way your sexuality developed, you'll understand why you've struggled so much with sex.