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Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual Gift

Here's the "cycle"... a man watches porn... often in violation of his very own conscience... and then masturbates... and then feels guilty... and then tries to NOT watch porn... and then starts the cycle over by watching porn again. The Power of Purity is for men who are interested in discovering how to control sex instead of being controlled by sex. The Power of Purity is a 100% safe and confidential resource that will help men... FINALLY... experience their sexual gift in a healthier way. Purity IS possible with The Power of Purity! A NEW EPISODE PUBLISHES EVERY TUESDAY
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Mar 26, 2024

In this episode, which was recorded during Holy Week, Tony shares some reflections from Matthew chapter 21 concerning Palm Sunday.

This was the day that Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey, and as he did the people shouted exclamations of praise, adoration, and joy!

"Hosanna to the Son of David!"

"Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!"

"Hosanna in the highest!"

Among other key thoughts, Tony focuses on one intriguing observation from the passage, which is the prophetic quote that was written by the prophet Zechariah 500 years before the actual triumphal entry of Jesus into Jerusalem.

Rejoice greatly, O Daughter of Zion!  Shout, Daughter of Jerusalem!  See, your king comes to you, righteous and having salvation, gentle and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.  Zechariah 9:9

Based upon this scripture, Tony reflects on the unusal way in which the animal that Jesus rode into Jerusalem is mentioned in the passage:

(1) A donkey

(2) A colt

(3) A foal

Why did Zechariah seem to go above and beyond the call of duty to provide such intricate detail concerning, of all things, the donkey that Jesus would ride over 500 years later? 

The Jews of the day were waiting for the Messiah, their Savior and Deliverer, and that's exactly who Jesus was, but the way the Lord comes into our lives and situations isn't always the way we were expecting! 

Mar 19, 2024

Jesus was fully God, and fully human, both at the same time.

Jesus, as a human being, lived in this broken and fallen world.

And in his humanity, Jesus experienced temptation just like us.

Because of this, we have a Savior who understands us.

When Jesus was in the wilderness he fasted for 40 days.

At the end of the fast he was hungry, and the devil came to him to tempt hm.

The devil tempted his to "turn these stones into bread".

Or said another way, the essence of the temtptation was for Jesus to take care of the legitimate needs of his physical body in his own way.

As if the devil was saying, "You're hungry Jesus, so do what you need to do to take care of yourself!"

And in much the same way, the enemy often comes to us and tempts us to take care of the legitimate needs of our own physical body in our own way.

In this sense, the urge for a man to satisfy his legitimate sexual needs through the use of pronography is a similar temptation to "turn these stones into bread".

Jesus set the example for us.

Jesus was a man, and Jesus was tempted, but Jesus also resisted those temptations.

The bible then tells us that we can also resist the temptations that come to us, because God will not allow us to be tempted beyond that which we can bear.

You have the Lord in your heart and life if you're a Christ beleiver, and you can overcome temptations just like Jesus did!

Mar 12, 2024

Just like a coin has 2 sides - heads and tails - there are 2 different components that are virutally inseperable, which are sex and relationship.

Or, said another, sex is intended to occur within the context of relaitonship, and this leads to a very important and undeniable reality, which implicates the importance of healthy relaitonship.

Or, said another way, the healthier and more funcitonal the relationship is , the healthier and more funcitonal the sex will be that occurs within the context of that relationship.

But there's another very important and undenial reality, which is the truth that relationship can be very challenging and difficult.

What often happens in the context of relationship is what Tony is calling in this episode, the "X".

The "X" is not good.

The "X" is hard.

The "X" is a disagrement, a difficulty, a tension, a fight, an argument, or a misunderstanding.

And the reality is that every couple is going to experience, not just one "X" in their relationship, but many different "X's" over time.

And therefore a very important question emerges, which is implicates the title of today's episode:

What do we do with the "X's" when they show up in our relationship?

In this episode Tony advocates that there are only 5 options on how to deal with the "X", and he shares those 5 options.

Of the 5 options, there's one that's the recommended and outstanding option that can and will lead to the possibly of traversing the "X" in a healhty and productive way.

Learn to deal with your "X's" in a better way, and that will lead to a healthier and more functional relationship, which will in turn create the environment that makes healthier and more functional sex possible! 

Mar 5, 2024

In this weeks short episode Tony reflects on a very interesting scripture found in the Gospel of Matthew.

Jesus is in the Garden of Gethsemane.

He's very sad and he's struggling because he knows what's about to happen.

He leaves most of the disciples at a particular place in garden, and then takes Peter, James, and John with him a little further into the garden.

As the following scene then unfolds, he asks these three disciples, three different times, to "watch" and to "pray" so they would not fall into temptation.

Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation.  The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. Matthew 26:41 

It's of significane to notice that Jesus connects two important spiritual disciplines here directly to the problem of temptation: to watch and pray.

Or said another way, because of the temptations that are lurking around us, that can and will entice us, we must "watch and pray", and it's these spritual disciplines that can then empower us to resist these temptations.

The word "watch" that Jesus uses here is defined as:

to give strict attention to, be cautious, active, to take heed lest through remission and indolence some destructive calamity suddenly overtake you.

Through the words of Jesus a powerful Kingdom formula therefore emerges:

If we "watch and pray" we'lll be better equipped to resist temptation!

 

 

 

Feb 27, 2024

This is Episode 400 of The Power of Purity Podcast!

The Blood Arrow!

If you were an Indian and you went hunting, you'd probably take more than one arrow in your quiver.  In fact, you'd probably want a whole quiver full of arrows, so you'd have plenty of shots ready if you needed them.

In much the same way, people need many different "arrows" in their metaphorical quiver that they can draw upon in their struggle/battle agaisnt temptations.  We need to have a battle plan in place, before the temptation arises, so that when the moment of truth arrives we have some resources, concepts, and strategies we can immediately employ in the face of that partiuclar temptation.  These strategies are the "arrows" in our quiver, and in this episode Tony presents the concept of a new arrow to fight this battle:

The Blood Arrow!

The blood of Jesus is very powerful!

The blood of Jesus brings us the forgiveness of our sins, makes us a child of God when we beleive in Jesus, gives us a relationship with living God, and even gives us the gift of eternal life.

So, the strategy here is to call upon the blood of Christ in response to temptation.  Take out the "blood arrow" and unleash its power in the face of temptation!

In this episode Tony shares 9 powerful scripture verses about the blood of Jesus, and 3 powerful songs about the blood of Jesus.

The next time you're confronted with temptation, quote at least 3 verses about the blood, and sing a chorus about the blood, and you will be empowered to overcome... by the blood arrow!

Nothing But The Blood of Jesus 

There's Power in the Blood

There Is A Fountain Filled With Blood - sung by Joni Eareckson Tada

Feb 20, 2024

In this episode Tony shares the SECOND greatest gift you could ever give to God, which is the submission of your will to his will.

When God decided to create human beings, he did most amazing and remarkable thing when he decided to give us free will.

God did not make us robots.

He did not program us so we would have to love him and obey him.

Instead, he gave us free will so we would have the choice, and we could then choose to love him and obey him or we could choose not to.

In this way, when we do choose to love God and obey him, and when we do choose to surrender and submit our will to him, it's among the greatest gifts we could ever give him.

This was the original temptation in the Garden of Eden, when the serpant essentially tempted Eve to exercise her will independently of God.

"Why should God have the right to tell you what you can and cannot do?  If you eat this fruit, you can be like God!  You can decide for yourself what's right and wrong!"

And a good example of this from the bible is the example of Jonah, because when God told Jonah what he wanted Jonah to do, Jonah decided he did not want to submit his will to the will of God, and Jonah went in the completely opposite direction!

And another good example fo this from the bible is Mary, the mother of Jesus, because when the angel Gabriel announced God's plan to her, she immediately surrendered and submitted her will to the will of God, and thank goodness she did!

The SECOND greatest gift you can ever give God is the submission and surrender of your will to his will, and at the end of this episode Tony extends an invitation to you concerning the FIRST and greatest gift you could ever give to God!

Feb 13, 2024

In this episode Tony shares a concept / idea / strategy that has helped him tremendously in his personal life... in his walk with God... in his purity walk... in his mental and emotional equilibrium for at least the past year.

The Power of Music!

God made us, and gave us a heart.

And God made music, and music, in a mystical way, is a powerful language of the human heart.

There's music in heaven, and there will be music for eternity.

It's almost as if we wouldn't know how to be human if we didn't have music.

From the earliest days of humanity, humans intuitivly discovered the importance of rhythm and beat, even if it was as simple as  beating on a drum.

There is rhythm, and melody, and cadance, and beat.

And this is the importance of worship, because the music can quite literally transcend our thoughts and reasoning to transport us into the very presence of God.

In this episode Tony shares how music can powerfully and profoundly effect our brain chemistry to release the feel good chemicals - dopamine, oxytocin, seratonin, and endorphins - that can help us regulate our emotional state, and our choices, in healthier ways.

Tony shares how he's been experiencing music (and dance) in a new, and deeper, and healthier way that's contriubted significantly to his metal, emotional, sexual, and spritual self-regulation.

It's a powerful and significant concept / idea / strategy that can and will help you in so many different dimensions of your life.

Superstition - Stevie Wonder

Mustang Sally - Wilsn Pickett

I Wish - Stevie Wonder

Let's Stay Together -  Al Green

I'll Take You There - The Staple Singers

Chain Breaker - Zach Williams

Redeemed - Big Daddy Weave

Redeemer - Nicole Mullen

Shattered - Blanca

The Power of Music!

Feb 6, 2024

In this episode Tony shares 2 important metaphors.

The first one concerns the game of chess.

When you're playing chess, the objective is to get your opponent in "checkmate".

This means he doesn't have any moves left.

In this metaphor Tony compares our relationship with God to the game of chess.

In one sense God is attmepting to get us in "checkmate", which means we surrender completely to his will, plan, and Lordship for our life.

God's was is better than my way.

And in an interesting turn of events, it can often be the sexual area of a man's life that God uses to finally get that man in "checkmate".

It's when we become desperate enough as a result of our struggle with sexual brokenness, compulsion, and addcition, that we often come to the place where we're finally ready and willing to do the work we need to do that will allow God to work in a deeper and more powerful way in our heart and life than ever before. 

CHECKMATE!

The second metaphor is taken from the wonderful movie, The Wizard of Oz!

When the farmhouse crashes down, and Dorothy opens the door and steps over the threshold, the movie changes from black and white to color, and she delivers the most significant line of the entire movie:

"Toto, I don't think we're in Kansas anymore!"

In this sense there's a kind of "before and after" in each one of our lives.

The metaphorical "Kansas" (in black and white) represents the old way we used to live our life, and the metpahorical "Oz" (in color) represents the new way of life God has intended for us.

It's the way of God and the way of his kingdom.

We're in a new and different place we might not really understand, but we're finally positioned to experience the life, healing, restoration, and redemption of God in our heart, life, and sexuality like we've never experienced before!

Jan 30, 2024

Are you serious about being a man of purity?

Are you serious about expressing and experiencing your sexual gift in a way that’s consistent with what God says about sexuality?

Are you serious about really working on this area of your life?

If you are, these things are not going to happen on accident.

It’s only going to happen if you can identify some strategic issues that will truly make a difference in your relationship with yourself, and then do the work that’s necessary to apply those things to your life and situation.

In this episode Tony shares 4 important skills of purity that will be very strategic for the average guy to practice as he seeks to experience his sexual gift in a healthier way.

(1) Self-awareness

You need to be in touch with yourself.

You need to be award of what’s going on with yourself emotionally so you’re aware of those moments when you might be getting more vulnerable to temptation and acting out.

If you don’t know what’s going on with you it sets you up for repeated failure.

(2) Interrupting yourself

When you feel yourself beginning to escalate in the old cycle of failure, you absolutely need to be able to interrupt yourself in order to break free of that old cycle and create the possibility of choosing something different and healthier.

(3) Choosing a healtheir alternative

If you can catch yourself as the old cycle begins to unfold, it creates the possibility for you to exercise your “no” muscle, and for you to make a healthier choice, such as calling a friend, going to the gym to work out, mowing the grass, listening to some music, or writing a psalm to the Lord to tell him how your feeling at that moment and what you’re struggling with.

(4) Practice

We must then choose to practice this new and healthier cycle over and over again. Practice being aware of myself, interrupting myself, and choosing something healthier, and as we practice these 4 important skills of purity we will help you to stay on track!

Jan 23, 2024

God did the most amazing and mysterious thing.

He created us with free will; the ability to choose; the ability to say "yes" to something if we want to say "yes", and the ability to say "no" to something if we want to say "no".

God could have made robots, but God wanted something way more authentic, and real, and sincere than that.

He wanted a creature that had the ability to disobey him, but that would freely to choose to obey him.

Wow!

In this episode Tony reminds us that we have the ability to choose.

Over and over again, probably severeal times a day, you're going to have the ability to "choose", and the choices you make will both determine and reveal the person you truly are.

Being a healthier person has something to do with getting the power of choice back, and then exercising your will in obedience to God!

14 “Now therefore fear the Lord and serve him in sincerity and in faithfulness. Put away the gods that your fathers served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord.15 And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”  Joshua 24:14-15

 11 For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. 12 It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, 13 while we wait for the blessed hope—the appearingof the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, 14 who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purifyfor himself a people that are his very own,eager to do what is good.  Titus 2:11-13

 6 Now Joseph was well-built and handsome, and after a while his master’s wife took notice of Joseph and said, “Come to bed with me!” 8 But he refused.  Genesis 39:6-8

Jan 16, 2024

This world is very broken.

Every person is very broken, and this is why we need a Savior.

This world has a way of beating people up.

There's hurt, pain, confusion, depression, difficulty and hardship in every person's life.

It just looks different for each of us at different times of our lives.

There's an ebb and a flow.

When the going gets a little bit tough (or a lot tough), and it seems like things are really hard, we may sometimes be tempted to struggle with questions about God's love.

Does God really love me?

Does God really care?

If God really loved me, why is he allowing this difficult situation in my life?

Why doesn't God do something about this?

In this episode Tony explores the question of God's love.

How can we really know for sure that God loves us, even when we're going through something really difficult in our life?

How do I know that God really loves me, even if I'm struggling with a weakness, or even if I've been acting out in a sinful way.

What's the ultimate proof of God's love?

There is an ultimate proof, and if you understand this one thing you'll always have the sure confidence of God's love for you, regardless of what's happening in your life.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  John 3:16

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.  Romans 5:8

Jan 9, 2024

Our connection to God in the process of change, healing, and recovery is of supreme importance.

It’s hard enough to overcome sexual compulsion, sexual addiction, or addiction to pornography with the Lord, let alone without the Lord.

Even secular recovery programs such as Alcoholics Annoymous affrim the importance of your relationship to a "higher power" to the process of recovery, and at least 6 of the 12 steps directly mention this reality.

Step 2: accept that a higher power, in whatever form, will restore your sanity

Step 3: make a decision to turn your will and life over to a higher power

Step 5: admit to a higher power, another human, and yourself the nature of your wrongdoings

Step 6: accept that a higher power will remove your character defects

Step 7: humbly request the higher power remove your shortcomings

Step 11: use prayer and meditation to connect with the higher power

If we're serious about being better men, we must have a relationship thing going on with God, and not just a religion thing.

Tony asks a critiically important question at the end of this episode, and the way you answer the question has profound implications for your life!

Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.  John 15:4-5

Therefore, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.  II Corinthians 5:17

12 He that hath the Son hath life; and he that hath not the Son of God hath not life.  I John 5:12

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.  Philippians 4:13

I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.  Galatians 2:20

 

 

Jan 2, 2024

Tony recorded this episode on New Years Day, 2024!

He focuses on one particular passage which is Luke 8:22-25, and observes how God often chooses to bring his people through a "storm" rather than around the "storm".

In Psalm 23 it says that God is with us through the valley of the shadow of death.

In the Old Testament God brought his people through the Red Sea when Pharoah was coming to destroy them.

Jesus himself had to go through the cross in order to get to the resurrection.

And in Luke 8 the disciples had to go through the storm in order to get to the other side of the lake where Jesus had told them to go.

No matter what's going on in your life at this time, you can rest asured in faith, that God is with you, and God is going to get you through the situation you might be currently concerned about or struggling with.

Even if you're stuggling with your sexual gift in any way at this time of your life, God can get you through.

He can get you through sexual addiction to the other side.

He can get you through sexual compulsion to the other side.

He can get you through porn addiction to the other side.

God sees you, he is not indifferent, he cares, and he can get you through!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

 

Dec 25, 2023

Good News of Great Joy

Tony recorded this episode on Christmas morning and shares a significant observation from the story of the birth of Jesus in Luke chapter 2.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people.11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”  Luke 2:8-12

We learn from the story that this “good news of great joy” is for “all the people”, and this means that what happened on that holy night was for me and for you!

On the night Jesus was born, an angel appeared to the shepherds in the fields around Bethlehem and proclaimed a message to them that reveals the very reason that our lives can be changed even today, over 2,000 years later.

If you’re struggling in your heart, life, or situation, there is hope!

Even if you’re struggling to manage and experience your sexual gift in a healthier way, there is hope!

The proclamations of both the angel on the night Jesus was born, and by the old man Simeon in the temple 8 days later, and the implications therein, contain the very truth and power that can change our hearts and lives, even today.

Take heart!

Have courage!

Don’t give up!

There is “good news of great joy for all the people”!

 

 

 

Dec 19, 2023

This episode was recorded on December 19th, 2023... in the shadow of Christmas which was just 6 days away.

It's so easy to get lost in the helter-skelter and business that comes along with this time of the year - buying Christmas gifts, parties, get togethers, traveling, family obligations, etc.

Rush... rush... rush... busy... busy... busy!

Sigh!

In this episode Tony encourages us to remember the "true reason for the season", and shares 3 important observations from Luke 2, which is the story about the birth of Jesus.

It's interesting to note the progresson of 3 intersting vignetes that appear one after the other in this passage.

The first one concerns something that was proclaimed by the angel who appeared to the sheperds that night.

The second one concerns something that was proclaimed by the old man, Simeon, who had a special connection to the Holy Spirit.

The third one concerns something that was proclaimed by the old woman, Anna, who had been a widow for 84 years, and was over 100 years old.

SAVIOR!

SALAVATION!

REDEMPTION!

A very significant "theme" emerges around these unusal events that occurred when this special litte boy was born in the manger in Bethlehem, and the proclamation of this "theme" reveals the very reason of his birth.

SAVIOR!

SALAVATION!

REDEMPTION!

 

Dec 12, 2023

In this episode Tony explores the mystery of the Incarnation - the mysterious reality that God became a man, and made his dwelling among us.

God became one of us, and the little baby in the manger - Jesus - was incomprehensibly 100% God and 100% human at the very same time.

But this profound mystery isn't just theology for us to believe in our head.

It's reality that makes all the difference in our hearts and lives.

It's the reality that God is with us that creates the possiblity that our lives can be truly different.

It's the reality that God is with us that creates the possibility that a man who's struggling with an addiction to pornography can truly change into a new and different man.

What do you think the chances of true and lasting change would be if God wasn't with us?

When we're confused... God is with us!

When we're struggling... God is with us!

When we're depressed... God is with us!

When we're discouraged... God is with us!

When we feel weak... God is with us!

And when we're strugglng with pornography, or any kind of compulsive sexual behavior... God is with us!

In this episode Tony shares 3 very powerful scriptures that affirm the reality that...

God is with us!

“The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).  Matthew 1:23

1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. 14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.  John 1:1,14

5 The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.  Philippians 4:5-7

Dec 5, 2023

What can God stop?

God is God, and God is all powerful, and God is almighty, and nothing is too hard for God.

God can do anything God wants to do, and God can stop anything God wants to stop.

In this episode Tony shares 15 amazing things that God stopped in the bible, along with the corresponding verse for each of these 15 things.

(1) God stopped sickness.

(2) God stopped the storm.

(3) God stopped the armies of pharaoh.

(4) God stopped paralysis.

(5) God stopped leprosy.

(6) God stopped lameness.

(7) Gid stopped infertility.

(8) God stopped hungry lions.

(9) God stopped 135,00 Midianites.

(10) God stopped the firey furnace.

(11) God stopped demons.

(12) God stopped deafness.

(13) God stopped Goliath.

(14) God stopped blindness.

(15) God stoppeed death itself.

Is there something going on in your life right now that you would like God to "STOP"?

In this episode Tony affirms that God can "STOP" anything God wants to "STOP", but also shares one very important reality that we absolutley need to understand and accept.

Nov 28, 2023

The truth is incredibly important.

You're in a spiritual battle that's raging over your life, and the greatest weapon the enemy has to use against you is the power of the "lie".

If the enemy tells you a lie, and you beleive the lie, it's as if the lie becomes your truth, because you're beliving it's true, even though it's a lie.

In this way the lie can hold power and authority over your life and soul.

For example, in the early days of Tony's struggle, he believe the lie, "I cannot resist temptation."

And because that lie was holding a place of authority in Tony's life, it was very hard for Tony to resist tempation, because Tony was believing that he could not resist temptation. 

Jesus said in John 8:32 - "You will know the truth and the truth will set you free."

It's absolutly imperative that we identify the lies that are coming against us and that we replace those lies with the truth of God.

In this epsiose Tony shares 12 statements of "truth" that will be central to your walk of purity.

If you don't beleive these 12 things you will struggle in your walk of purity.

If you replace the lies with these 12 statements of "truth", your walk of purity will be strengthened.

Be blessed this day, in Jesus' Name!

 

Nov 21, 2023

A listener of The Power of Purity Podcast sent the following note:

I recently listened to episodes 162 and 163 with Frank Johnson and am now going through all 300 plus episodes myself. I am tired of that powerless feeling when those BAM moments hit and want to get to a place where I am controlling sex and not the other way around. I just want to say how much of a blessing your show has been to me. I really relate to you and the guests you’ve had on the podcast. Please continue to keep up this work. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Can you relate?

Have you ever been living your life, minding your own business, and then out of no where... BAM... you get blindsided with a sudden and unexpected temptation or trigger?

It happens to all of us.

The "BAM" is the moment you get hit with an unexpected temptation, and how we handle those "BAM" moments will determine our ability to be the man of purity God is calling us to be.

In this two part series, Important BAM Prinicples, Tony shares 3 different ideas that are incredibly important toward navigating the BAM with great success!

WARNING - there is a "BAM" coming to you in the very near future, and this series will help you be prepared for your next "BAM"! 

Nov 14, 2023

A listener of The Power of Purity Podcast sent the following note:

I recently listened to episodes 162 and 163 with Frank Johnson and am now going through all 300 plus episodes myself. I am tired of that powerless feeling when those BAM moments hit and want to get to a place where I am controlling sex and not the other way around. I just want to say how much of a blessing your show has been to me. I really relate to you and the guests you’ve had on the podcast. Please continue to keep up this work. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Can you relate?

Have you ever been living your life, minding your own business, and then out of no where... BAM... you get blindsided with a sudden and unexpected temptation or trigger?

It happens to all of us.

The "BAM" is the moment you get hit with an unexpected temptation, and how we handle those "BAM" moments will determine our ability to be the man of purity God is calling us to be.

In this two part series, Important BAM Prinicples, Tony shares 3 different ideas that are incredibly important toward navigating the BAM with great success!

WARNING - there is a "BAM" coming to you in the very near future, and this series will help you be prepared for your next "BAM"! 

Nov 7, 2023

Muscle memory is so important is so many areas of life and especally in sports.

Dancing.

Bowling.

Golf.

Ping Pong.

Tennis.

Swimming.

To become really good at the game you're trying to master, you often need to develop "muscle memory" so you can repeat the proper motion over and over again.

The movement needs to become embedded in your body.

It needs to become instinct and intuition.

You need to be able to do what you need to do, over and over again, without even thinking about it, because if you have to think about it, you're already a step behind where you need to be.

And in much the same way, if we're ever going to be the men of purity that God is calling us to be, we need to develop the "muscle memory" necessary for sexual purity.

In this series Tony shares some important principles that will help you discover how to develop this "muscle memory".

If you practice over and over again, just like your dance steps and just like your golf swing, the "muscle memory" of your sexual purity will become embedded to the place where you no longer have to even think about it, because you're just doing it without even realizing you're doing it.

Be encouraged.

Don't give up.

Keep practicing, and you'll develop the "muscle memory" of purity!

Oct 31, 2023

Muscle memory is so important is so many areas of life and especally in sports.

Dancing.

Bowling.

Golf.

Ping Pong.

Tennis.

Swimming.

To become really good at the game you're trying to master, you often need to develop "muscle memory" so you can repeat the proper motion over and over again.

The movement needs to become embedded in your body.

It needs to become instinct and intuition.

You need to be able to do what you need to do, over and over again, without even thinking about it, because if you have to think about it, you're already a step behind where you need to be.

And in much the same way, if we're ever going to be the men of purity that God is calling us to be, we need to develop the "muscle memory" necessary for sexual purity.

In this series Tony shares some important principles that will help you discover how to develop this "muscle memory".

If you practice over and over again, just like your dance steps. and just like your golf swing, the "muscle memory" of your sexual purity will become embedded to the place where you no longer have to even think about it, because you're just doing it without even realizing you're doing it.

Be encouraged.

Don't dive up.

Keep practicing, and you'll develop the "muscle memory" of purity!

Oct 24, 2023

Do you remember the movie, Castaway?

In the movie Tom Hanks plays a character named Chuck Noland, who works for Fed Ex.  

As the story unfolds, he's involved in a plane crash and he's the sole survior.

He washes ashore on a deserted island and remains stranded there for over 4 years.

His only "companion" is a volleyball he names "Wilson", who he talks to on a regular basis.

He tries several times to escape the island but it's an exercise in futility because of the power of the crashing "waves" that are constatnly coming against him.

Eventually he devises a plan in his attempt to overcome the waves, and he's finally successful.

In much the same way, this story becomes a metaphor for many men who are trapped on the island of sexual compulsion and addiction.

It feels like we're trapped.

It feels like we're in a bondage that we can never escape.

It feels like the constant waves that are coming against us are insurmountable and impossible to overcome.

In this series Tony reflects on this metaphor and shares 11 of the "waves" crashing against men that make it seem like they can never get free from the "island" they've been trapped on.

But even more importantly, Tony shares God's remdey for each one of these waves, and reveals that in the end, just like Chuck Noland, we can escape the island we've been trapped on for years.

Have you been a Castaway?

May you be encouraged and inspired by this series toward the true freedom and rescue God has intended for you!

Oct 17, 2023

Do you remember the movie, Castaway?

In the movie Tom Hanks plays a character named Chuck Noland, who works for Fed Ex.  

As the story unfolds, he's involved in a plane crash and he's the sole survior.

He washes ashore on a deserted island and remains stranded there for over 4 years.

His only "companion" is a volleyball he names "Wilson", who he talks to on a regular basis.

He tries several times to escape the island but it's an exercise in futility because of the power of the crashing "waves" that are constatnly coming against him.

Eventually he devises a plan in his attempt to overcome the waves, and he's finally successful.

In much the same way, this story becomes a metaphor for many men who are trapped on the island of sexual compulsion and addiction.

It feels like we're trapped.

It feels like we're in a bondage that we can never escape.

It feels like the constant waves that are coming against us are insurmountable and impossible to overcome.

In this series Tony reflects on this metaphor and shares 11 of the "waves" crashing against men that make it seem like they can never get free from the "island" they've been trapped on.

But even more importantly, Tony shares God's remdey for each one of these waves, and reveals that in the end, just like Chuck Noland, we can escape the island we've been trapped on for years.

Have you been a Castaway?

May you be encouraged and inspired by this series toward the true freedom and rescue God has intended for you!

Oct 10, 2023

Do you remember the movie, Castaway?

In the movie Tom Hanks plays a character named Chuck Noland, who works for Fed Ex.  

As the story unfolds, he's involved in a plane crash and he's the sole survior.

He washes ashore on a deserted island and remains stranded there for over 4 years.

His only "companion" is a volleyball he names "Wilson", who he talks to on a regular basis.

He tries several times to escape the island but it's an exercise in futility because of the power of the crashing "waves" that are constatnly coming against him.

Eventually he devises a plan in his attempt to overcome the waves, and he's finally successful.

In much the same way, this story becomes a metaphor for many men who are trapped on the island of sexual compulsion and addiction.

It feels like we're trapped.

It feels like we're in a bondage that we can never escape.

It feels like the constant waves that are coming against us are insurmountable and impossible to overcome.

In this series Tony reflects on this metaphor and shares 11 of the "waves" crashing against men that make it seem like they can never get free from the "island" they've been trapped on.

But even more importantly, Tony shares God's remdey for each one of these waves, and reveals that in the end, just like Chuck Noland, we can escape the island we've been trapped on for years.

Have you been a Castaway?

May you be encouraged and inspired by this series toward the true freedom and rescue God has intended for you!

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